Do girls really not value friendship or bonds at all?





There was a girl who dated 20 guys in total from middle school to high school. Now she's single, which I really couldn't believe....whatever.I just wanted to be great friends with her because she was there for me when I was feeling bad. So I continued to be a good friend, helping her with crucial stuff (tests, scholarship essays, SAT, etc).She had another close friend, but it took her a minute to her relationships with him.Eventually, over summer, she gets a boyfriend, but she only says its a summer thing...she broke up with him after summer ended, which I ended in more pain for her (he's a college undergrad from another state who came over to visit his family..I knew it would happen)Now, she's breaking friendship with me, because she thinks I'm wanting her to be someone else that she isn't (which honestly did NOT make sense at ALL...she is so unintelligent)I'm just wondering how someone is so cruel like this...how can she not value bonds? Why doesn't she use her head? Why is she so inconsiderate? Her physical attributes are so attractive, yet her personality is so horrid. And personality you can actually change! She is so stupid, she can be so smart if she wanted to....now she going to probably end up in a stupid college when she could have gotten into UC Berkeley with me....I try helping her, and now this? She is the only girl I ever became open with...now I'm just broken...I feel like I'll never approach girls...



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4 Answers to “Do girls really not value friendship or bonds at all?”

  1. Mertensia says:

    she’s a whore

  2. selectness says:

    Why does she think you want her to be someone else? Have you made comments about her decisions? remember you are her friend not her parent and maybe she feels that you were chastizing her or judging her. Ending you friendship was probably hurtful for her to. But she seems to be done with it. If you want to be in her life tell her that your friendship is unconditional, that you don’t judge her, you care about her, and don’t want to see her get hurt but you will always be there when she needs you and leave it at that. I’m only assuming you have made comments to her because in your question you say that she is stupid and her personality is unattractive.

  3. change says:

    you shouldnt feel that way theres alot of girls in the world that are looking for a friend like u ..she seems not to value u nor your friendship and you shouldnt want to be freinds with someone like that.it seems like guys to her are more important than ur friendship.the only thing u were trying to do was give her advice dont sweat it if u realy are how u say u are ull find a new best friend in no time…girls do that a lot believe me its happened to me and i dont give up that one day il find a true best friend.

  4. moloker says:

    It sounds like you’ve already made up your mind about how you view her now its just about telling her how you feel about her and how you don’t like the person she has become…immaturity etc. The movie Mean Girls is so true.